Zurc Nauj Nauj من عند Saltabarranca, Ver., المكسيك
I didn't find this book to be riveting in the writing style - it can be rather dry and there are parts that drag on a bit. But it is a fascinating true story about identical twin boys who, because of a circumcision gone horribly wrong, are raised as brother and sister. The ego of Dr. John Money is infuriating and it is frustrating just how he managed to get all these cases of sex reassignment. I find it baffling that all these parents would let their children have these yearly therapy sessions with this nut without oversight, especially when the children were all vocal about not wanting to go and would get more nervous about meeting with the man as they grew older. People - listen to your children!!! They are the experts of themselves! There are just two other parts that I have to write about. The first is that there seems to be confusion on the part of the author in the difference between gender identity (the gender you perceive yourself to be) and sexual orientation (the gender you are sexually attracted to). The author doesn't seem to understand that these two things are not related. The other thing I want to comment on is the underlying belief that all these children have to suffer the taunting of their school peers. Children do NOT have to suffer this kind of cruelty! Do whatever you have to do to keep your children home if society cannot accept them for who they are. Let them develop their sense of self without cruel children telling them they are a freak. I came away from this book with a strong belief that intersexed children should remain as they were born until they decide that they want to do something about it. But they need the full support of their parents to be able to develop into who they are meant to be without the taunting and teasing of people who think everyone must be the same (well, they can be a boy or a girl, but beyond that the girls all must be the same and the boys must all be the same). I also came away with a slight fear of "experts". There is something to be said for people who have humility and a more fluid viewpoint. Who can consider actual circumstances rather than always have the "right" answer before even being presented with the case. While this isn't a parenting book, I chose to place in on my parenting shelf because I feel that it is an important book for parents.
Hämmentävä on tämä Vonnegutin teos. Ajassa, paikassa ja jopa eri ulottuvuuksissa kimpoilevan kirjan keskiössä on Dresdenin pommituksesta selviytynyt amerikkalainen sotilas Billy Pilgrim. Pääjuonena voisi pitää Billyn "seikkailuja" sodassa ja sodan jälkeisessä Amerikassa ja sivujuonteena hänen epävakaata mentaalista tilaansa. Epäilemättä kirjasta ja sen päähenkilöstä on tehty monenlaisia tulkintoja. Tämä tarina ei ole mitenkään yksiselitteinen sisällöltään. Omassa osittaisessa sekavuudessaan ja kaaottisuudessaankin ihan lukemisen arvoinen kirja. Jollain hämärällä tavalla Vonnegut saa jonkinmoisen punaisen langan kasattua sisältöön. Niin se käy.
My mom learned to read with Dick and Jane, I did, and now my son it. I love Dick and Jane stories!